5 Hints for Keeping Your Sagittarius Lover Happy

Of all the zodiac signs, Sagittarius is one of the most cheerful, optimistic and fun loving. You’d think that these gregarious individuals would have no trouble making a compatibility match, but there are some key points to bear in mind when you’re trying to catch and hold onto you Sagittarius lover.

1 – Freedom Matters

Sagittarius, along with Aquarius, is a zodiac sign which insists on freedom in all that they do and all that they say – and that includes in romance. Dating compatibility for Sagittarius is next to nil with anyone who wants to hem Sag in, lay down rules or otherwise inhibit that precious freedom. If you’re in love with a Sagittarius, help your compatibility match along by understanding this sign’s need for independence. It doesn’t mean that he or she doesn’t love you, it just means that they need to be on the go and one the move the whole time. If you truly love your Sag partner, let him or her go – because they will (almost) always come back.

2 – Embrace the Outdoors

And not only on camping trips either. Outdoor sex is a huge hit with Sagittarius, and if you can bear it getting intimate in the great outdoors will greatly increase your compatibility. Match the outdoor location with a favourite destination, hobby or mode or transport and you’re onto a double winner. For Sagittarius, al fresco sex followed by an interesting activity is heaven on earth.

3 – Don’t Force Commitment

Your Sagittarius partner may well love you more than life itself. He or she would probably gladly die for you and would follow you to the ends of the earth and back – just don’t ask your lover to settle down, get married or forge any kind of commitment they haven’t suggested first. It’s a psychological thing. Trying to force Sagittarius into a commitment, even if you’ve been together for decades, is a death knell to your compatibility match. Your lover just won’t tolerate it. And you can see their point – if you’re happy together, why is having an official piece of paper going to make that any better? Leave things be and you might even find that your Sag is eventually tamed enough to want to make that commitment of their own accord.

4 – Don’t Drop Hints

Dropping a hint to a Sagittarian is a complete waste of time. Your Sag lover is direct in thoughts, deeds and words, and doesn’t even notice when someone else isn’t. If you’re not laying it on the line, preferably in words of few syllables, you’re not saying it at all as far as he or she is concerned. If you need or want to get a point across to your Sagittarius partner, just say it. If there’s a special gift you’d like, or something you want to try in bed, come straight out with it. Trying to communicate via coded messages, gestures or subtlety will just hinder your compatibility match, and waste a lot of time!

5 – Be Absolutely Truthful

Even if it hurts. Because Sagittarius will be with you. Even if you’ve had an affair or done something terrible, your partner will be much happier with the truth rather than any kind of cover up or white lie. The one thing Sagittarius cannot and will not forgive is dishonesty – if you’re found out covering something up, Sag will be much more hurt by the deceit than by the original faux pas. Your compatibility match will thrive on honesty, although if you’re not as direct as your Sagittarius lover, you might find it hard to get used to at first!

Dating compatibility is much more complex than star signs alone can cover, so if you want the complete low down on your relationship with your Sagittarius lover, try an Astromatcha astrology compatibility report – these fantastic reports cover your love match from every angle of your respective birth charts, and make wonderful gifts too.