At first glance, this couple have little in common. The bold and go-getting Aries man wouldn’t be interested, we assume, in the meek and mild Virgo woman. She in turn, devoted and loyal, would be much too easily hurt by the aggressive and self-centered Aries man. It’s true that this relationship does need a lot of work by both parties, but Aries man Virgo woman compatibility can work if both partners are willing to adapt.
The Aries man seeks adventure in his love life, while the Virgo woman seeks romance and support. The Aries man changes for nobody, while the Virgo woman seeks to shape and mould her man into a better version of himself. She outwits him with her clever words and intelligent approach; he bores of her shyness and unwillingness to socialize. Perhaps the most difficult part of the Aries man Virgo woman relationship is getting these two together in the first place – they don’t really have many interests in common!
If there is an attraction, it will initially be a sexual one. Virgo women have a reputation for being modest and inhibited, but Virgo is an earth sign, and that gives her an inner sensuality which is hard to deny. Meanwhile, Aries is sex on legs, and the Virgo woman is attracted to his vibrancy and potency almost in spite of herself. He can be very charming, and he will lend his Virgo woman the self confidence she needs to truly relax and enjoy herself, so in terms of passion this relationship can be a winner.
The problem comes when the Aries man sees the Virgo woman as just another conquest. He will not stand for being criticized and has little interest in understanding her on a deeper level. The Virgo woman will put up with his selfishness because she’s the kind of woman who will put up with a lot, for love – but he will need to be a whole lot more thoughtful to keep her devotion for ever.
Still, that elusive magic called love does bring the Aries man and Virgo woman together sometimes. They can actually learn from one another if try. The Virgo woman can teach her Aries guy a lot about duty and responsibility; he in turn can teach her how to have more fun in life and how to take a risk or three and thrive on it. Where there’s a will, there’s a way, and if these two meet half way then Aries man Virgo woman compatibility can somehow survive.
It will never be an easy relationship, however. The Aries man’s temper tantrums will eventually be met with cool indifference by the long suffering Virgo woman. His initial courteous interest in her worries and woes will cease and she will find that she can’t confide in him after all, and that he brushes off her attempts to ask for his help. In the bedroom, this pair can sustain the game of hide and seek for a long time – both will enjoy the challenging nature of their passionate relationship – but outside the bedroom they will spend more time bickering than staring into one another’s eyes.
The best hope for the Aries man Virgo woman relationship is that he learns to live with her nagging and she learns to accept that he isn’t going to change. If both partners can remember and recognize what made them fall in love in the first place, they will be OK. Virgo woman needs to focus on her Aries guy’s strengths, while he needs to focus on the humility and mysterious qualities which first drew him to his Virgo lady. The problem is that both seek to change the other – Virgo always wants to change everyone, while the Aries man wants the Virgo woman to become more like someone else entirely. Acceptance is the key.
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