Virgo is one of the most misunderstood signs of the zodiac, especially when it comes to compatibility. Virgo lovers are sensual, loyal and devoted, but not always the easiest people to live with. If you’re in love with a Virgo, here’s a quick guide to 5 things you should know, or 5 ways to ensure that your Virgo sign compatibility remains intact.
1 – Let Virgo Take Care of the Details
It’s what Virgo does. Nobody does it better, in fact, so you might as well let your Virgo lover deal with the day to day minutiae of life. They’ll be happy doing that, and will feel loved, respected and wanted, while you’ll have more time to do….other things. Apart from helping grow your compatibility, Virgo will also be kept so busy organising your life that he or she will have less time to nag, which is always a plus.
2 – Ask for Help
The whole Virgo psyche revolves around the notion of being of service. As an easy way to bolster your compatibility, Virgo would love it if you ask for help now and then. It doesn’t matter with what – whether it’s the washing up or writing your thesis, your Virgo lover stands ready and willing to assist in any way he or she can, and what’s more will devote him or herself to the task with an absolute fervour of duty. One of the things Virgo hates most is a highly independent partner, so if you’re not the type to ask for help, see if you can find it within yourself to at least look a little lost once in a while, and to then gratefully accept Virgo’s offers of a listening ear.
3 – Learn to Take Criticism
Criticism – ah, yes. Virgos are famous for dishing it out, although to be fair, most take criticism fairly well too. How about you? If you’re the type of person who hates to be criticised, you may find out rather too late that Virgo almost can’t help it. Try to let it wash over you. Reacting angrily or impatiently will only damage your compatibility. Virgo means well and will never criticise with malice – after all, he or she is only trying to help you. If you listen, you might even find that they have a point now and then.
4 – Be a Respectful Lover
Although Virgo as a sign is far from virginal – it is a sensual earth sign after all – one thing Virgos can’t stand is crudeness or rudeness. For great sexual compatibility, Virgo would love you to be dignified and tender. No fumbles on the back of a bus here, please. Set the mood carefully and woo your Virgo with words as well as deeds. If you’re patient and restrained, you’ll unlock an ardour which should more than meet your passion – behind closed doors. Which brings me to my final point…
5 – Respect your Virgo’s Privacy
Virgos are fundamentally modest, quiet and refined people. They don’t like to have their business broadcast to the world, and most especially they don’t like to have their sex lives talked about. What goes on in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom if you want to maintain your compatibility; Virgo will not thank you at all if you grope him or her in public or joke about it with your mates. A little decorum goes a long way in Virgo’s world!
Virgo sign compatibility is at its best with signs which make the effort to see past the prudish image to the devoted, loyal lover beneath. Do you have a question about compatibility? Virgo individual matches are covered in our star sign articles, but you can also ask our astrologer, or order an Astromatcha astrology compatibility report for a full insight into your relationship.
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