There are a lot of obvious differences between the Gemini personality and the Scorpio personality, and at first glance, this couple don’t have a great deal in common. They do find themselves drawn together, however, and this is a relationship which can surprise everyone. For the Gemini man and Scorpio woman, compatibility is unstable and unpredictable…but they quite like it that way.
The Scorpio woman is intensely emotional and very full on. In a relationship with a Gemini man, she will insist upon his undivided attention; or at least, she’ll try to. In reality, she’ll have to share his attention with his friends, his mother and his job, which is likely to send her into many a searing sulk. Their social life isn’t without issue either, since the Scorpio woman, a very private lady, would prefer to stay in with her man, while the Gemini man wants to be out and about mixing and mingling. Gemini man Scorpio woman compatibility will involve compromises about how much time this couple spends alone together.
When they argue (which is often) it will appear that the Gemini man wins every time. After all, he’s the intellectual, and he paints such a logical picture that the Scorpio woman is hard pressed to win. She, however, is a woman who knows how to bide her time. She may have to give in there and then, in the moment, but she broods, and she will know how to get her own back in due course. For the Gemini man and Scorpio woman, compatibility often takes the form of an extended power play, with the Gemini guy winning on the face of things, but the Scorpio woman manipulating things behind the scenes.
Sexually, it will always be the Scorpio woman who takes the lead in this relationship. She is very sexual and very sensual, and she brings a huge depth of emotion to the couple’s love life. She’s likely to find the Gemini guy rather superficial in this area, though, and a little too lightweight. He doesn’t provide the emotional connection she wants; at least, not always. It’s this difference between searingly intense emotions and relative coolness which can prove a true problem for Gemini man Scorpio woman compatibility. This is an air and water mix, which can result in a storm full of passion and angst, or it can result in a rainbow – but when the dark and intense Scorpio woman is involved, rainbows can be hard to come by.
Jealousy can be another real problem for this couple. The Scorpio woman is one of the most jealous women around, and she will struggle to tolerate the Gemini man’s flirtatious nature. She finds him rather too fickle, and he fails to take their relationship seriously sometimes, which maddens her. She gives her all to the relationship, and to find him joking about it is just more than she can bear. For the Gemini man and Scorpio woman, compatibility is a very on-off affair, therefore. There will be plenty of arguments and breakups, yet this couple always seem to get back together again.
Why? Probably because each has something the other needs. The Scorpio woman needs and admires the Gemini man’s deft touch with communication. He in turn needs to understand more about his own emotional depths, which she can teach him. Despite being one of the more tempestuous zodiac relationships, long term Gemini man Scorpio woman compatibility stands a better chance than you might think.
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