For the Taurus man, the Gemini woman is initially very attractive. She is sociable, gregarious, charming and flirtatious, and this appeals very much to every manly instinct the bull has. She in turn is attracted to his thoughtfulness and to his romantic demeanor. For Taurus man Gemini woman compatibility, however, there needs to be a much more solid foundation than this initial attraction.
In many ways, once he gets to know her properly, the Taurus man will discover that the Gemini woman is his worst nightmare. He loves stability, caution and takings things slowly. She is a whirlwind of different ideas and moods, and she changes her mind about everything approximately three hundred and forty two times a day. He just can’t keep up with what she wants from him – probably because she herself is not really sure. The real problem with Taurus man Gemini woman compatibility is that neither partner has realistic expectations of the other.
The Gemini woman is highly imaginative, and she imagines her Taurus man to be twelve different varieties of himself, before breakfast. Sometimes she wants him to be her strong, solid, knight in shining armor – he can do that. Sometimes she wants him to sweep her off her feet in a romantic burst of affection – he can do that too. But sometimes she wants him to drop everything and join her in her latest whim. Or to tell her to spend as much as she likes. Or to surprise her by announcing that the whole family is moving to Australia. He’s going to struggle with all of those, and even his legendary patience is likely to wear out. For the Taurus man and Gemini woman, compatibility is uneven, unsteady and a bit of a headache.
The Taurus man, for his part, expects his Gemini woman to be a lively and entertaining companion, which she is. He also expects her to be a sensual and passionate lover – which she isn’t. She views sex much more intellectually and playfully than he does, so compatibility problems in the bedroom can occur. Meanwhile, the Taurus man also expects his Gemini woman to be completely and utterly faithful. That one’s the deal breaker, because she is very flirtatious by nature, and not the most faithful girl around. The Taurus man is hugely possessive, and even if her flirting is harmless enough, it will drive him to deep resentment.
When things are going well in this relationship, the Taurus man provides a rock of stability for the Gemini woman, so that she can go off and do her butterfly thing, safe in the knowledge that she has a loving partner to go home to. The Gemini woman provides the Taurus man with a great deal of joy, and a youthful approach to spontaneity, which he badly needs. So this couple can and do complement one another’s personalities, but constant work is needed to maintain the compatibility.
If the relationship begins to falter, the Taurus man will withdraw into his strong and silent state, and may become almost unreachable in his pain. The Gemini woman’s instinct, in times of trouble, is to talk, talk, talk and keep talking – but her desire to discuss the relationship every hour of the day won’t be granted by Taurus man. Here again, Taurus man and Gemini woman compatibility runs into problems – but at this point, those issues could spell the end of the partnership altogether.
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