Pisces and Virgo Compatibility: The Dreamer and the Healer

When these two gentle, unassuming signs fall in love, the result can be truly magical. As opposite signs in the zodiac, Pisces and Virgo compatibility is based on each partner offering the other something they need and something which they lack. In the case of the Dreamer and the Healer, both partners can create an relationship which covers all bases and looks set to be blessed with longevity.

Ultra sensitive Pisces finds a partner they can trust in down to earth, honest Virgo. Virgo is exceptionally loyal and devoted when in love, and will not let Pisces down. As the Healer of the zodiac, Virgo helps Pisces to face their sensitivity head on, and provides a grounding influence for the often overwhelmed Dreamer. Meanwhile, Pisces helps Virgo’s imagination soar and teaches Virgo the value of romance and subtlety. Pisces and Virgo compatibility soars in an atmosphere of mutual appreciation, and this couple can easily become each other’s biggest fans.

Like the fish which symbolises their sign, Pisces goes with the flow of life, rarely planning anything, and relying on intuition to see them through. Virgo plans everything in meticulous detail, and can become very stressed when those plans fall through. Together then, this partnership can reach a happy middle ground, with Virgo showing Pisces how a little structure in life can go a long way, and Pisces showing Virgo how it’s not the end of the world if things turn out differently to how you expected. For Pisces and Virgo, compatibility is nothing if not a learning curve for both partners, but some of the best and strongest relationships are formed when both partners have something to learn.

Pisces is an water sign and experiences depths of emotions that Virgo can only imagine; Virgo, as an earth sign, is rooted in common sense and practicality which Pisces so very much needs. The more you look into this relationship, the more you can find opposite ways of living which complement one another beautifully. Pisces and Virgo compatibility provides this couple with the best of both earth and water and as on our own planet, the two elements are natural allies.

With a huge depth of compassion, Pisces is a selfless sign and can be a devoted partner. Virgo is also very compassionate, albeit in a more practical and helpful way, so between the two of them this partnership creates a very loving family base and two parents with unique strengths to offer their children. Fortunately for Pisces and Virgo, compatibility here is strong enough to withstand the rigours of parenting, and a shared approach to family life will be helpful all round.

Success is not guaranteed for this partnership, however, as it never can be for any relationship. Virgo does worry so much about everything, and if he or she lets this show too much, it can prove too much for escapist Pisces, who will run and hide. Virgo’s insistence on facing reality can also unnerve the Dreamer, who would rather live in a fantasy world. If this couple is not careful, Virgo and Pisces compatibility can fizzle out as everyday worries take over; Virgo must learn not to harp on about minor niggles, and Pisces must learn to occasionally wake up and accept reality. Fortunately, both signs are mutable, flexible and adaptable – once they understand what is required of them, both partners are perfectly capable of supporting each other with overwhelming each other. It’s a delicate balance, but for Virgo and Pisces, compatibility is worth the effort.

At its best, this relationship can be magical, entrancing and deeply romantic. Communication is the absolute key, and each partner must be honest about their feelings without trying to hide the worst. Usually, when the Dreamer and the Healer join forces, they can create a better world both for themselves and for the rest of us. If you have any questions about Pisces and Virgo compatibility, ask us – we’re happy to help.

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  1. My husband and I are struggling after 18 years together. He is tired of my irresponsible approach to life sick of my lack of planning despairs at my inability to balance a cheque book, can’t understand how a trip to the store can take 2 hours. I find his constant criticism hutful he says really nasty things then when he feels better then he thinks that everything he has said should just be forgotten. I can’t keep forgiving him he hurts me then says I’m being silly or dramatic. If I said ” I hate you and want a divorce” I would mean it I don’t understand him

  2. I feel that there s a connection without a doubt butwe have different work schedulues so its hard for me to see her vice versa. I also feel in the future something else will hold me back from seeing her (family problems or people telling me shes “not the one” but they dont see her in my eyes or in the deepest core of my feelings.) I dont wanna give up on her and by the way shes always busy!!!. im a pisces and shes a virgo. shoild I jus call it quits or keep pushing and go for the goal and beyond?

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    • I just met a Pisces ( had our first date today) and I’m a virgo. Like your virgo, I am very busy. If you really care for her and love her, compromise 🙂 deep at heart, the virgo woman has a strong sense of romance and in reality needs to be shown that she’s cared for by you. Every relationship needs compromise to work. Give and take. Mutual respect, understanding. Pisces man you are perfect for your virgo woman. Listen to your intuition. Best of luck!!

    • Might be too late looking at the date you posted but just an FYI if you are still trying to get involved with her.

      My husband “courted me” for close to four years in high school before we finally started dating. I just wasn’t interested in dating someone I wasn’t sure was ready for the same relationship I was. I am a committed person that loves with 110% of myself. We became good friends in the three years “courting” and I could see he was a genuine person that really cared for me and wanted a relationship not just ‘fun’. We dated for 10 years then got married. It was the best decision ever. We have been happily married for the last two years and I can only see a lifetime together. If you truly see something special in her, never give up. Be her friend and support and she will see how much she needs/wants you in her life. Don’t be too pushy or demanding with your love, but be sure she knows it is there and it is what you want back from her. Be HONEST and RELIABLE. Those are the best qualities you can offer a virgo. If you get caught in a lie or let her down too many times, good luck ever getting into a relationship.

  3. In my past relationdhips I would also seem to get the short end of the stick. Nothing seem to work out for me I get good feedback from conversations I had but nothing went above and beyond. It hurts alot but I heal slowly and think mabye the next girl can make me think I have a chance. im a contradictor without noticing and im emotionally unstable ( im calm and know how to use it in a positive matter.) I feel that this gets in the way of my love life too .i jus dont wanna repeat the same story over but again should I go for the goal or should I jus leave it were it stands.?

  4. Go for her, but do so gently and slowly. She’s probably worried and paralized from analyzing her emotions, its hard for her to reveal her true emotions b/c she’s afraid of getting her heart broken. She loves deeply, and it hurts when its not returned. so she’s going the practical route by opening up slowly and not letting her emotions get the best of her.
    Good luck and be good to her!

  5. My husband and I have been together for 12 years now and married for 2. These past 12 years have been the most challenging and rewarding! He is the pieces and I am the virgo. He drives me nuts half the time but I love him more and more everyday. Our relationship takes constant work and communication and hasn’t always been sunshine and butterflies, but we are both committed to each other and trust and dedication hold us together. It doesn’t hurt that we are still insanely attracted to each other, physically and emotionally. He has helped me to calm down, not be so critical, not give my unwanted opinion to everyone and just be happy living life. I have taught him the need for proper planning and budgeting and the joys of cleaning the house (at least weekly!!!). Any relationship can work or fail, just takes two people willing to work together for it to last. Be sure to communicate and take time to understand the others perspective because when the relationship works, its amazing!!

  6. I’m a Pisces and my boyfriend is a Virgo. It’s challenging, but it’s also great at times. Like most Virgos as I have reading, are always BUSY. As a pisces, we are so emotional and sensitive. It’s only the beginning of our relationship, so we lack communication. I don’t know how to approach him on the subject without seeming so needy.

  7. Im a Virgo and my boyfriend is a pices. Weve been together almost a year now and lately weve been bickering back and forth everyday. I feel like i always give 110% in everything i do pertaining to our relationship. With him its randomly in which i can reciprocate love better if its consistent. I really do love him but like most virgoes we can only take so much before we shut down. Also now it seems like he gets angry at everything i say to him that he don’t agree with. I think he needs to go on and miss me for a while but he don’t want to leave. Im almost out of options because im really tired of tryin to show a grown man how to love me.

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